I’m not sure what more I can say。  You should be more cautious though about saying you want to be a wife。  Of course if we got along great and loved each other I would marry you without any hesitations。
    But we first have to make sure that you even like me。  You might not even like me。  I wouldn’t want you to have an unhappy life。
  
我不知道自己还要说些什么。你在说自己想嫁人前应该更为谨慎些。当然如果我们之间相处得很好也相互爱对方，我会毫不犹豫地和你结婚。但是我们首先要确保你是否喜欢我。说不定你都不喜欢我呢。我可不希望你生活地不幸福。
I have NO IDEA how we are going to make this work。
    You live in China。  I live in America。  We are halfway around the world。  I can not move to China right now。  Maybe in 10 years I can move to China。
    But I can not move to China right now。  I am a stranger to you。  I would gladly offer you to live with me in America。  But how can I?  You do not know if it is safe to be with me or not。
    Such trust can be dangerous to a woman and her daughter。  
我不知道如何才能让这件事变成事实。你住在中国，我住在美国。我们在世界的两端。我现在不能搬到中国去。可能10年后我行，但是目前办不到。
  对你而言，我是个陌生人。我很乐意邀请你到美国来和我一起居住。但是我该怎样做才能办到这点呢？你不知道和我在一起是否会安全。这样的信任对一个女人和她的女儿来说太危险了。
So for your own safety I don’t recommend ever trusting anyone online。
    This is a dangerous world。  I have seen so much horror。  You have to be careful。  Unless your situation in China is very bad, you are probably better off staying where you are。
    But if you really really have to change your life, then you can take a chance and live with me。  But this is scary for you and it is a big risk。
    So please think about everything and tell me what you want to do。
所以为了你自己的安全考虑，我建议你不要相信任何在网上结识的人。世界充满危险。我看到很多这样的惨事了。你应该小心。
  除非你在中国的现状很糟，否则还是待在中国的好。如果你真的非常非常想改变现在的生活状况，那么你可以尝试着过来和我一起住。但是这对你而言可是很大的冒险。所以请仔细考虑后告诉我你的决定。